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This Wife’s Prayer

Less than five months after Dave’s decision to leave his position at Grace, Dave is settling into his cowboy job in Colorado and I have a whole ton of coaching clients in Pennsylvania.   Joel and I will move into our PA condo next week and my life of solitude comes to a close.  We have a pending contract on our house in Illinois so those chapters of our life are coming to an end.  I am making a list of things to do together when Dave comes to PA in the fall.  Washington’s Crossing, the Jersey shore, Pearl Buck’s house, the train into Philly, the bus to NYC for Wednesday half-price Broadway shows, jazz in local bars, a long hike along the Delaware River, dinner with Bunny’s aunt and uncle, a long weekend in the upper northeast in the fall, and definitely the Cubs vs the Philly’s next year.  Maybe we will become hockey fans and cheer for the Flyer’s. Dave is making a list of things to show me when I make a trip to Bear Basin Ranch to celebrate our 35th wedding anniversary.  He assures me there is a horse that I will not mind too much. 

As I sat in my new PCA church home this a.m., listening to a fine message of truth, I missed the creativity my husband brings to a church service.  Dave has a gift that he must not stifle.  He has worked hard to develop that gift into a honed and remarkable skill that has resulted in immeasureable eternal benefit.  He is a thinker and an artist.  He has become a speaker and a presenter.  It is this wife’s prayer that God will place my husband in an environment where his deep convictions and unique abilities will be lived out fully expressed to the glory of God, the edification of the church, and the drawing of many to follow Christ.  This adventure is not ending….no way.  It is only beginning.

May 25, 2008 - Posted by debbiehensleigh | Life in Bucks County | | 4 Comments

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  1. I was thinking the same thing about your husband sometime in the last couple of days. He has gift that he must use. Even if he isn’t speaking every Sunday in a local church, he needs to use his creative communication skills in some way to build the kingdom. He’ll fine his place as God continues to lead you guys!
    This next book in your epic novel of life will be more exciting that you can even imagine now. I’m excited for you.

    Comment by Bill Glick | May 25, 2008 | Reply

  2. Debbie,

    I don’t know how much you remember me. I was saved through the church in Champaign back when Mike Bergen was leading the international students. Dave married Mimi and I back in 1992.

    It had to be a God thing, but I thought of you guys this morning and did the web search thing. I had known you had separated from the campus church thing and were leading up a community church no longer affiliated with GCM/GCC, but that was about it.

    I was, well, pretty shocked at all the transitions you are going through this year. On a scale of 1 to 10, it looks like about a 20. :-) I would love to talk with you guys and catch up with all that is going on.

    I am still at Clemson, SC. I am now a co-pastor at Clemson Community Church, which is still part of GC*. In addition I am still a faculty member at Clemson Univ. Our church also went through major changes over the years. We were a dying student church but have become a very small but healthy community church. Our web site is http://www.clemsoncc.org, if you want to take a look.

    Could you please send me an email with contact information? I would love to catch up further with you and with Dave.

    In Christ,
    –Carl

    Comment by Carl Baum | June 2, 2008 | Reply

  3. I am very excited for you & Dave & Joel…as I read your comments from May 11, I was blessed. Focus, intention, & discipline….that is part of the process of learning to retire. It doesn’t seem to come naturally….
    I hope the move went well & that you & Joel are getting settled. God is faithful!

    Comment by Joye | June 5, 2008 | Reply

  4. Debbie…I miss you. Keep writing!
    Dave

    Comment by davehensleigh | June 13, 2008 | Reply


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